Friends

WHO IS A GOOD FRIEND

   ALTERNATE DEFINITION : Some one who tells you the truth-especially when you don't want to hear it

HOW CAN YOU TELL IF YOU HAVE TRUE FRIENDS 

Those who know, like and trust one another; those who support and sympathize. Maybe it's more important to be a friend than to have one. How can you be a friend? Proverbs gives these guidelines:

      - Love unconditional

                    PROVERBS 17:17

         - Be available for advice

                   PROVERBS 27:9

            - Speak the truth

                   PROVERBS 27:5

               - Be loyal

                     PROVERBS 16:28

Jesus choose you to be his friend. "Honour God by accepting each other, as christ has accepted you. "

                                           ROMANS 15:7

Check it off. What's the goal of having friends, anyway?

a. to have someone to talk with at school

b. to keep from being lonely

c. to learn how to be a friend

d. to let them know how much Christ cares for them.

e. to learn and grow together as Christians.

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Dating

WHAT IS DATING

ALTERNATE DEFINITION - meeting someone at a particular time, especially a member of the opposite sex. 

Why is it so scary to ask someone for a date? How old should you be to go out on a date? If a guy spends a lot of money on you, do you have to let him kiss you? Do you get embarrassed when your parents want to meet the person you're dating?

Lots of adults will give you advice, even when you don't ask for it. Here's some. Which do you think is good advice?

  * Look for friendship, not love.

  * Go out with groups. Don't isolate yourself

  * Avoid getting too close too soon

  * Don't stay together just for security

  * Don't feel you have to pay for dates with physical intimacy.

  "Don't be a slave of your desires or live like people who don't know God. You must not cheat any of the Lord's followers in matters of sex."

                      1 THSSALONIANS 4:4-6

WHAT CAN YOU DO ON A DATE

Ride a bike, visit a beach. Take a walk. Share a pizza. Watch TV. Bake cookies. Listen to music. Do homework together. Play tennis. Hang out at the mall. Talk. Hold hands. Actually, 50 percent of the girls and 40 percent of the guys graduate from hight school without ever having a date! Surprised? If you're a "late blommer," it's good to know you're not alone.

passion

FACTS ABOUT LIFE

WHAT IS LIFE ALL ABOUT

Life is good to some people and bad to others. What could be the reason to that?. Some people do think of suicide most often while some do enjoy life to the fullest. Why is that so?. Life is a gift from God. The Bible says that, "in the beginning God created the Heaven and the Earth and the Earth was full of darkness i .e there was no light. The Bible also said that God created the greater light to rule the day and the lesser light to rule the night. Could it be that some people are still living in the dark part of the Earth while some are living in the light?

People who are living life to the fullest don't have two heads and they are the same beings with people that think that they are living in the dark. God created the earth and gave everyone equal amount of time everyday (24 hours). It depends on what you spend your time doing that will determine where you will be tomorrow. Plan you tomorrow today and you will never regret. You will rip what you sow so endeavour to plant good seeds. 

   Life is in phases and men are in sizes. What you do in each phase of your life will determine how you will behave in your succeeding phase. Many young people do spend money before they even see it and that is one reason why they can't become rich and why they still lives in the dark part of the Earth. Some young people are still living in the dark side of the Earth because they do compare themselves to others around them which is very bad. You can't please everyone at the same time and it is also not good to please people if they are going something bad and they tells you to do it also. Some teenagers do injudge in alot of bad things because they feel that people won't come anyway close to them if they don't do such. People don't just get it that they are unique beings who are not designed to be good at everything but in something unique. Life is the most difficult exam ever. People tend to copy others not knowing that everyone has a different exam paper. Just be yourself and don't border about what others say or thinks about you.  A Goat eats grass and gets fat but if a Dog do same for a long time, it will die. Just the same with life. What someone likes may be the same thing which will kill you.

Paul I Iji

 

Listen to the power of Quiet People

   What is on my mind today have the ability to change people mindset about life and it will also help people to discover themselves. Am writing on the topic," Listen to the power of Quiet people". There is a saying that says," silence speaks louder than words". You don't need to be loud to be smart. Are you an introvert or an extrovert?. That's a tricky question. I have a hard time answering it myself. That's the problem of binary question - you are forced to choose one or the other. Being quiet is a choice - you can be more outspoken in specific scenarios or more withdraw in others. Who you are cannot be limited to one label, especially when those labels are loaded terms. Our society favors action versus contemplation - extroverts have a more positive buzz. Quiet people have a unique power.

   A culture that worships loud people

   Our society has a long tradition of trying to define what's normal - maybe because we have a hard time accepting that we're all unique. Being left-handed was vigorously oppressed throughout the centuries - lefties were forced to use their right hand to write. Discriminatory practices against left-handed persisted well into the 20th century. Similarly, people still believe that being an introvert is not normal - those who act and speak louder are favoured. 

   My classmates do ask me, " why don't I talk more,". I do feel as if something was wrong with me. I enjoyed listening to others, observing the world, and cultivating my inner- self. Through time, am becoming much more comfortable with being exposed. I don't have an issue exposing myself. Is just that people are not the same just as our fingers cannot be the same. Some people do think that am been foolish or dumped for not talking much - but am not and they can think all they like and talk all they like. I KNOW WHO I AM and I won't allow that to get changed by anyone.

   Quiet People Have A Strong Voice

   There is no such thing as a pure introvert or extrovert. Such a person would be in the lunatic asylum. Don't strive to make your presence noticed but strive to make your absence felt. According to the English Psychologist, extroverts have a lower rate of arousal. They need to work harder to get stimulated to the same level as introverts. That's why extroverts people seek bold challenges, new experiences and crave company. Conversely, quite people don't need others to feel recharged. Their voices are already strong - they don't need to speak louder. Introverts are active when they are silent. Introverts have lots to say but also value the power of being quiet. "Silence is not the absence of words, but the presence of focus". The only thing introverts hate about talking is repeating themselves. Purposeful silence is a beautiful thing. There is always a music amongst the trees, but our hearts must be still to hear it.

   Being quiet is a choice, not a permanent status. Mental noise can destroy our minds. Silence is an endangered species that we need to take care of. Noise is both a distraction and escapism. Silence is more than the absence of sound - it allows for free presence of every thing else. Silence is an essential form of non-verbal communication. It's a sign of respect and personal distance. To some people, silence means something is wrong. That's the biggest mistake extroverts make - they assume that when introverts are quitq, it's because they are doubtful, lonely, or suffering. I remember vividly the day one of my classmate told me that, "keep quiet and die in silence". I did not say anything back to him. Silence gives you the freedom to be yourself. It's a beautiful choice that can reap many benefits.

TIME

It is a mistake to think that TIME is going. It is not going. TIME is here until the world ends. It is you that is going. You don't waste TIME. TIME is infinite while you are finite. It is you that grows old and die. TIME doesn't. So better make better use of yourself before you expire. And one of the worst things to do with TIME is comparing yourself to others. A cow eats grass and gets fat but if a dog keeps on eating grass it will die. Never compare yourself with others. Run your race. What works for one person may be that which will kill you. Focus on the gifts and talents God gave you and don't be envious of the blessings He gave others.

Quotes For Today

1. All successful people not only work hard, hard, hard but they also work fast, fast, fast.

2. Good habits are hard to form but easy to live with. Bad habits are easy to form but hard to live with.

3.Sow a thought and you reap an action; sow an action and you reap a character; sow a character and you reap a Destiny.

4. Your willingness and ability to persist are what will eventually guarantee your success.

5. Thought is the original source of all wealth, all success, all material gain, all great discoveries and inventions and of all achievement.

6. Change creates opportunities.

7. To achieve something you've never achieved before, you will have to think in ways that you've never thought before.

8. Believe you can and you're halfway there.

9. Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap but by the seeds that you plant.

9. It is always the simple that produces the mervelous.

10. We sometimes need to get rid of old painfull thoughts. 

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CHOOSING YOUR CAREER

 One thing you must know when choosing your career is that "career choice depends largely on who you are and not what you know". What you love doing is the signal placed inside of you to point the way to your career.

Here are some steps to follow when choosing your careers;

1. Identify what you love doing: Always choose your career based on what you love to do and this may include cooking, drawing, writing, singing, dancing, etc.

Before you continue reading, I want you to ask yourself these questions to help you choose your career wisely;

a. What are my hobby?

b. What do I love to do?

c. What area of life do I function well in life?

d. What are my natural talents? and;

e. Who am I ?

Write down the answers to these questions on a sheet of paper and go over it over and over again.

2. Identify the school subjects in which you always perform excellently: This is also one important thing to do when choosing your career and when you identify the school subjects that you perform excellently, you can now add that knowledge to your career to make you better in your career choice. For example, if you're good in Biology you can learn more on that subject to increase your knowledge.

There is a saying that says" if you want to hide something from an African man put it in a book". It is a believe that Africans hate to read so prove that believe wrong by reading. And there is also a saying that says"he who stops reading stops living". 

3. Be creative: There is alot of the same old same old out there and it is true that copy cats can become well known. Been creative basically means having something that people will remember because it's stands out of course. This can backfire if you're too focused and complete originality( there is no such thing) but you should tease out what specific and original thing you have to offer because that will help you when you're selling your project. You can become famous through your career and these are some easy ways of doing that;

a. Setting the stage: : These days, it is alot easier to become famous. Social Media makes it easier and faster to connect with large groups of people. Getting to celebrity status, however takes time and commitment. It won't happen overnight, buy there are few ways to make it more likely to happen and these include;

i. Choose you types of celebrity: There are lots of different kinds of celebrities from writers, fiction, singers and actors or even chefs. To become a celebrity, you have to pick an area to become a celebrity in. It's also good to decide whether you're looking for that 15 minutes of fame or whether you want your fame to be a lifelong endeavour. It takes time and effort to accomplish but will last longer.

ii. Practice: There is a say that says" practice makes perfect.  So if you're wanting to be a celebrity at something, you're going to have to work at it until you're at a level that makes people want to invest in you. While, it's true that celebrities aren't always the best at what they do but they still tend to be good at it. Whether it's writing, acting, singing or cooking.

Put in at least one hour everyday at your chosen fields. This will help you get focused on your creative endeavours and keep you focused towards your goals, which is having people know your work. And also set a goal it will motivate you even if nobody does.

iii. Study celebrities in your chosen fields: See how those celebrities got famous. Chances are however you won't see all the background work that went into getting them to their celebrity status, but you will able to see where they started. For example, alot of celebrities talk about their early years and what they did to further their careers. Study how and where they got the break that allowed them to become a celebrity and how much work they had to do simply to get to that place.

THE MINDSETS OF THE RICH

 You may wonder what magical powers do the rich possess?. What are their secrets?

Their millionaire attitudes sets them apart. The poor people do not have that kind of mindset.

                  The start point

The secret to kindling the inner fire that lurks within you is the lasting happiness. You may ask yourself " where does that lasting happiness comes from"?. The lasting happiness comes from steadily working to accomplish your goals(s) and advancing confidently in thr direction of your lifesl purpose. For achieving financial success, you should bring change into your thinking pattern. In addition,you need to do the following;

1. Start thinking positively: What you love doing effortlessly for hours everyday with joy in your heart has the ability to take you to the front rank one day. What you love, you start concentrating on it and what you concentrate on, you start loving. So concentrate on what you want to be or what you want. Your subconscious mind will help you achieve it.

2. Create your own path to success: Trying to follow others will help you to some extent but your goals will not be achieved so you should try your own voice. Career choice depends largely on who you are and not what you know. To become successful in life, you must identify the area of your life where you function well and you must identify your natural talents. The ultimate struggle in life is the struggle to better yourself and not the struggle to be better than someone.

Many people fail in life because they were trained in another field instead of their field. If you are stuck up with a job which you hate, you will not be able to work toward it even if your spend ten or more hours daily you will not succeed.

3. Love yourself: If you do not love yourself, you will never be Rich and successful in whatever you get involved in because if you don't feel that you deserve the best, you will not be able to work towards it.

4. Don't feel jealous when others become successful because jealousy is a negative emotion and it will only bring negativity into your life and you will be diverted from the path of success.

4. You should not blame others for your failure: Start taking responsibility for whatever happens in your life as you would love to take all the credits for your success, learn to accept your faliures too without pointing fingers at others for the same.

Life Quotes 2

 * Don't leave your life to fate because you may loose your place in life.

* The outcome of your life is a product of you plan

* The starting point of every good plan is the writing point.

* The shortest pencil is still longer than the longest memory.

* If you have no one to inspire you, you will soon expire.

* Every human reference himself is a product of reference.

* If I have seen farther, it is by standing on the shoulders of men who have gone ahead of me.

* To think you know all the answers means you don't know all the questions.

* Decision is the initiation of motion which drives you to your destination in life.

* Indecision is the cancer if destiny.

* Decision is the mother of action.

* Live above dear and doubt in order to overcome indecision.

* The only way to overcome fear and doubt in decision making is to go ahead and make a decision. i.e do the things you fear and the fear of death I certain.

* Your fears may be fuelled by the failure of your previous decisions.

* Make more decisions in order to make a right one.

* The antidote of ignorance is knowledge.

* He who does not read is not better than he who cannot read.

* Reading is the most effective avenue for acquisition of information.

* Information is the proven bedrock upon which every transformation in life is built.

* When you read, you expand the capacity of your life 

* When you stop learning you become old whether at 20 or 80.

* Feeble minds end up as mediocre.

* Every successful leader is an ardent reader and ardent readers are potential leaders.

* Great minds are not born, they are developed.

* You dreams for transformation is rooted up in information.

* Reading enables you to rub your small mind with greater minds, so as to sharpen it and make it soind.

* The man who dares to waste one hour of his time has not discovered the value of life.

* Time management is a crucial commodity to the fulfillment of destiny.

* Your time is a reflection of the usage of the time allocated you in life.

* Time management equals life management.

* We either invest time or waste it.

* What you are today is a product of how you used your time yesterday and what you will be tomorrow will be determined by how you use your time today. 

* Time is spelt "OPPORTUNITY"; to kill time is to burry opportunity.

* Time is life and for every time you burn out, it is an equivalent of your life.

The Ultimate Struggle In Life

The ultimate struggle in life is to be trained in another field of career other than your field and aslo note that the best you can be is what God wants you to be so never destroy your life by choosing the wrong career. To be successful in life, you must identify the area of your life where you function well. It may be your edcational life, business life, music life, etc. If you must succeed and off course with speed, peacr of mind and total satisfaction, then you must keep to what you love doing. You must be generous in a unique way. This may seem counterintuitive, some people become successful by doing something for other people in an unusual way. It may be making a large donation. But you could also just raise money in some ways that is out of the ordinary.

For example, you could make it your goal to bake and sell a million brownies to raise money for a cause. If you don't have a talent of your own then why not develop one?. That's a good place to start. However, the talent you pick should be something you enjoy. You are going to spend many, many hours working on this talent so if you don't enjoy it, you're going to be miserable. When passion drives your talent or skill it will be easier to become successful.

Think about artistic career like writing, music, acting or pauntipa. Keep in mind, though you have to sell yourself in any of these fields and build a name for yourself. You can become successful by learning from yourself. Whatever talent you arebtryiar to develop, you'll do better if you learn from yourself. This can mean taking classes in your field, finding a mentor, watching tutorials online or reading books from the library. Many people fail because they undertake a business without considering whether there is room for it, others because they do not thoroughly establish themselves in the place, making no effort to get a constituency and others  because they will do not keep the goods that are in demand or do not renew the stock sufficiently quick or do not present their goods In an attractive way.

Thousands fail in business every year when an idea put into practical operation would have tided them over the trouble and opened the road to a competence. No man with common abilities who puts the half or even the quarter of these ideas into practice can possibly fail.

Never allow anyone to plan your life. You must learn from what you do best to succeed in life. He who walks with integrity walks securely but he who perverts his ways will become known. Never show anyone your plans, they might end up discouraging you in whatever you want to do and you might end up giving up. To become successful in life you must never give up because riches do not profit in the day of wrath, but faithfulness delivers from death. So never give up. If you did not plan for anything, you plan to fail.

Whenever you fail in life, it should never make you feel bad. It doesn't mean that you are a loser instead if you fail you should learn from your failures and become a better person.

How To Find Your Life Purpose.

1. Do what you love to do: This is the corner stone of having abundance in your life. Abundance is not something we acquire, it is something with tune into. Many people dream of being successful yet they never achieve it because they keep on doing what they don't love doing. At times, we have all failed. There are many reasons why you may feel like a failure or that you will never be a success.

     

REASON NUMBER ONE

* PROCRASTINATION

      It's normal to pracrastinate a little but if you procrastinate way too much, you put off doing difficult or unpleasant tasks that you have to do and end up sabotaging yourself. Procrastinate is the number one thing to fix if you want to be a success. Your mindset will suffer when you procrastinate too much because you are not thinking about being productive or about moving towards your goals.

REASON NUMBER TWO

   * Fear of failure and fear of success can both stop you from achieving high level-success. Success means change, setting new goals and a defined line between before and after. This fear is what prevents your mind from being in the right mindset for success. You should not blame others for your failure instead take 100% responsibility for whatever happens in your life as you would love to take all the credit for your success. Learn to accept failures too without pointing fingers at others for the same and it will make you a more responsible person.

REASON NUMBER THREE

   * Jealousy: this is a negative emotion that will bring negativity into your life and will divert you from the path of achieving your goals. Don't feel jealous when someone is successful at something instead it should motivate you to become like them or even better. Jealousy is exhibiting negative, inactive attitudes on a basis in your life.

REASON NUMBER FOUR

   * Comparison

          Don't compare yourself with anyone in this world if you do so you are insulting yourself. Most young people in our world today live their life comparing their life to every other person and end up trying to be like everyone. That's the path to unhappiness and failure. Your life mission isn't to beat others in their games. Your life mission is to know your own game so be yourself. Who are you? You are simply a unique being who is not designed to be good at everything but in something unique. Trying to follow others will help you to some extent but your goal will not be achieved. Try your own voice . Career choice depends largely on who you are and not what you know.

Finding Out The Purpose Of Your Life

    When you try to think about what the mission or purpose of your life, you may not get a clear picture of it. Why?  Because we lack clarity and intelligence for finding our real purpose in life. It is possible that you may have many goals and may not be able to identify the real one specific to you, how to bring that one mission out of your mind that will lead you to success.

   Your connection with reality may be the foundation of your purpose. Not having decided your purpose in life does not mean you do not have one. It is not something you will just wake up to one day. You have to work hard to determine it. You may not have the option of choosing it as you have many choices and many of the choices may not even be genuine.

   While targeting at your purpose, you will have to exhibit the ability to perceive it and you need to create a method to achieve your purpose.

      

Amazing Fact About Life

One person's trash is another person's treasure life quote

Life Quotes

1. The pain you feel today will be the strength you will feel tomorrow.

2. The fact that you aren't where you want to be should be enough motivation.

3. It is during the worst times of your life that you will get to see the true colours of the people who say they care about you.

4. For every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness.

5. To teach and to be reasonable to yourself is not the same thing.

6. It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.

7. Nothing is impossible to those who believe.

8. The biggest asset in the world is your mindset.

9. People think you're been arrogant when minding your own business.

10. If opportunity doesn't knock, build a door.

11. 80% of billionaires don't have a college degree.

12. Don't be a parrot in life, be an Eagle. A parrot talks way to much but can't fly high but an Eagle is silent and has the will power to touch the sky.

13. Happiness is not about getting all you want, it is about enjoying all you have.

14. People will throw stones at you. Don't throw them back but collect them and build an empire.

15. The best revenge is to improve yourself.

16. If your repentance has not changed your life, you need to repent for your repentance.

17. A time will come in your life when some people will regret why they treated you wrong. Trust me it will definitely come.

The Power Of Sacrifice

WHAT IS SACRIFICE?

   Sacrifice is giving out something that you do not value for something that you value.(Gen 22:14). The throne of sacrifice is where two or three are gathered in the name of Jesus Christ. You need the power of God to become whatever God want you to become in life. Any man that continue to renew his Sacrifices, it is difficult to bring him down in life. It is sacrifices that can turn turn the foundation of generational curses and people that don't give sacrifices to God are the people that always think and talk about their problems. 

   The less you associate with some people the more your life will improve. So you need to do away with some of your friends because they will always bring negativity into your life. Your friends will stretch your visions or choke your dreams. Does that don't stretch you will definitely decrease you. Never receive counsel from unproductive people and never disclose your problems with someone who is incapable of contributing to the solution because not everyone has a right to speak into your life. Choose your friends wisely and if you have any bad friend in your life, develop a strong courage to tell that person to leave your life.

   If you run with WOLVES you will learn how to HOWL but if you associate with EAGLES you will soar to greater heights. Same with life. Bad friends are the WOLVES whole good/position friends are the EAGLES so is your choice to choose who to be your friend. With some people you spend time with others, you invest time . In order to succeed in life, you must spend time with people who make good use of their time and not with people who spend their time doing nothing. Don't follow anyone who is going nowhere because you'll be like them.

   You must sacrifice all your Negative/Bad habitsha for the Good/Positive habits because with your Bad/Negative habits you will go nowhere in life. Change your thinking into positive. Forget about what bad friend have ever told you about your life. Change your mindset from negative to positive ones because wise is the person who fortifies his life with the right friends. A simple but true fact about life is that you will become like those you closely associate with. In life, work for a cause not for applause because if you work for applause you will always do anything to please your friends which is bad and by so doing you will never know what God want you to be in life. Always live to express not to impress and don't strive to make your presence noticed but strive to make your absence felt. 

   The road to success is not straight. There is a curve called FAILURE some BUMPS called FRIENDS red light called PARENTS. But if you have a spear called DETERMINATION and an engine called PRESERVANCE and a driver called PRAYER tigetoge you will make it to the place called SUCCESS.

   Never let anyone take away your peace. A man with vision doesn't need distraction. You may have defined yourself based on your past but never give up. People will always try to put you down and because of that, you should not listen to whatever someone tells you about yourself as far as it is not good. Remember people that plan your future for you. God planned it for you . You must believe in yourself to become what God have planned for you to become. Whenever you fail in life that does not mean that your life have ended. Failure is the way to success and I you fail it should motivate you into doing the right thing. Most of us have a problem achieving what we want because we have never given it a thought as to why it is unachievable. Instead of lookfor the problem and fix it we keep blaming everyone around us for our failure. You will blame your country's economic system, parents, siblings or even the president but will never try to see what we are lacking. 

   If there is a lack in your life it is because there is a lack in your thoughts/thinking. Our greatest glory is not in never failing but in rising every time we fail and you should not let your fears prevent you from doing what you know is right. Stop being a prisoner your your past and become the architect of your future. You will never move forward in life by just thinking and talking bout your problems all the tome but Instead look within yourself for the solution.

   

How To Achieve Anything You Want

1. What is life without God?

Who am I living for?

Do I follow what my friends say about me?

The question is " what do they say"?.

Is it positive or negative?

Do you know that having too many people in your life is not good?

Do you know why?

Because you will always live to please them which is BAD.

No one can change who you are if you know who you are. 

You are a unique being who is not designed to be good at everything but in something unique.

This world is filled with evil and there is nothing good that comes from the devil except trouble.

Don't border yourself about what people say about you as far as it is not good.

You have a rich reward in heaven.

Live a Christ-like life.

God owns your destiny.

He has a plan for you.

Don't misuse it.

Destiny can only be achieved with God. 

It can't be achieved without God.

How To Succeed In Life

   In order to succeed in life you must not compare yourself with anyone in this world. If you do so you are insulting yourself and you'll end up trying to be like everyone. You are not bigger than anybody in this world and nobody is bigger than you because you are a unique being who is not designed to be good at everything but in something unique. Your life mission isn't to beat other people in their games. Your life mission is to know your own game so be yourself.

   You must take big risks in order to succeed. The best time of your life to bear life is when you are young because you have nothing to lose. Don't just talk about your dreams instead wake up and pursue them. Start with whatever you have, wherever you are then get out and get lost. Your exposure from a very young age to the realities of the world is a super big thing. Most people don't know what life really is until they they are 40 and most people live with the elusion that life is or should be easy. While others expect the government or their parents to solve their problems for them. What am trying to say here is that the earlier you understand the realities of life and the earlier you take 100% responsibility of your life, the more successful you'll become. What then is the reality? The reality is that life is tough and nobody will help you to solve your problem(s).

   You need a coach. It doesn't matter whether you are a basketball player, a tennis player, a gymnast. In life, you will become the person you admire and if you don't admire anyone, you'll become nobody. You need someone to inspire and challenge you, someone to help you to believe in yourself. Your coach doesn't have to be someone you have physical access to. They can be people who have achieved what you want to achieve. You can follow such people on social media and watch their inspiring videos. But why is this important? Simple. Because most people around you don't know anything about success. If your dad isn't successful he can't teach you how to be successful that's why you have to look outside your comfort zone for someone who can inspire and challenge you .

   In order to be successful in life, you have to be humble because success is a lousy teacher and it can seduce you into thinking that you can't lose. Some people have been successfull for few minutes because it got to a point where they will start thinking that they know it all. People who are successfull for a long time never stop learning because they know that they will fail if they don't keep learning. Life changes everyday and the only way to remain relevant is to keep on learning. In this day of social media and interesting movies, how many youths take time to read and to read good books, yet the books you read determine the type of future you will have. 

   We start life with so many big dreams. Things we want to accomplish,create,build and experience but if you ask anyone past the age of 40 "what happened to all your dreams", they will most likely answer "life". This is because people so hate the pain of taking actions so much that even when they try to take action, the first failure will take them back to where they were . Most people are dreamers because dream is sweet and everyone eats it. Action is bitter and that is why only few people Practice determine and persistent actions.

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