How To Succeed In Life

   In order to succeed in life you must not compare yourself with anyone in this world. If you do so you are insulting yourself and you'll end up trying to be like everyone. You are not bigger than anybody in this world and nobody is bigger than you because you are a unique being who is not designed to be good at everything but in something unique. Your life mission isn't to beat other people in their games. Your life mission is to know your own game so be yourself.

   You must take big risks in order to succeed. The best time of your life to bear life is when you are young because you have nothing to lose. Don't just talk about your dreams instead wake up and pursue them. Start with whatever you have, wherever you are then get out and get lost. Your exposure from a very young age to the realities of the world is a super big thing. Most people don't know what life really is until they they are 40 and most people live with the elusion that life is or should be easy. While others expect the government or their parents to solve their problems for them. What am trying to say here is that the earlier you understand the realities of life and the earlier you take 100% responsibility of your life, the more successful you'll become. What then is the reality? The reality is that life is tough and nobody will help you to solve your problem(s).

   You need a coach. It doesn't matter whether you are a basketball player, a tennis player, a gymnast. In life, you will become the person you admire and if you don't admire anyone, you'll become nobody. You need someone to inspire and challenge you, someone to help you to believe in yourself. Your coach doesn't have to be someone you have physical access to. They can be people who have achieved what you want to achieve. You can follow such people on social media and watch their inspiring videos. But why is this important? Simple. Because most people around you don't know anything about success. If your dad isn't successful he can't teach you how to be successful that's why you have to look outside your comfort zone for someone who can inspire and challenge you .

   In order to be successful in life, you have to be humble because success is a lousy teacher and it can seduce you into thinking that you can't lose. Some people have been successfull for few minutes because it got to a point where they will start thinking that they know it all. People who are successfull for a long time never stop learning because they know that they will fail if they don't keep learning. Life changes everyday and the only way to remain relevant is to keep on learning. In this day of social media and interesting movies, how many youths take time to read and to read good books, yet the books you read determine the type of future you will have. 

   We start life with so many big dreams. Things we want to accomplish,create,build and experience but if you ask anyone past the age of 40 "what happened to all your dreams", they will most likely answer "life". This is because people so hate the pain of taking actions so much that even when they try to take action, the first failure will take them back to where they were . Most people are dreamers because dream is sweet and everyone eats it. Action is bitter and that is why only few people Practice determine and persistent actions.

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