FACTS ABOUT LIFE

WHAT IS LIFE ALL ABOUT

Life is good to some people and bad to others. What could be the reason to that?. Some people do think of suicide most often while some do enjoy life to the fullest. Why is that so?. Life is a gift from God. The Bible says that, "in the beginning God created the Heaven and the Earth and the Earth was full of darkness i .e there was no light. The Bible also said that God created the greater light to rule the day and the lesser light to rule the night. Could it be that some people are still living in the dark part of the Earth while some are living in the light?

People who are living life to the fullest don't have two heads and they are the same beings with people that think that they are living in the dark. God created the earth and gave everyone equal amount of time everyday (24 hours). It depends on what you spend your time doing that will determine where you will be tomorrow. Plan you tomorrow today and you will never regret. You will rip what you sow so endeavour to plant good seeds. 

   Life is in phases and men are in sizes. What you do in each phase of your life will determine how you will behave in your succeeding phase. Many young people do spend money before they even see it and that is one reason why they can't become rich and why they still lives in the dark part of the Earth. Some young people are still living in the dark side of the Earth because they do compare themselves to others around them which is very bad. You can't please everyone at the same time and it is also not good to please people if they are going something bad and they tells you to do it also. Some teenagers do injudge in alot of bad things because they feel that people won't come anyway close to them if they don't do such. People don't just get it that they are unique beings who are not designed to be good at everything but in something unique. Life is the most difficult exam ever. People tend to copy others not knowing that everyone has a different exam paper. Just be yourself and don't border about what others say or thinks about you.  A Goat eats grass and gets fat but if a Dog do same for a long time, it will die. Just the same with life. What someone likes may be the same thing which will kill you.

Paul I Iji

 

Listen to the power of Quiet People

   What is on my mind today have the ability to change people mindset about life and it will also help people to discover themselves. Am writing on the topic," Listen to the power of Quiet people". There is a saying that says," silence speaks louder than words". You don't need to be loud to be smart. Are you an introvert or an extrovert?. That's a tricky question. I have a hard time answering it myself. That's the problem of binary question - you are forced to choose one or the other. Being quiet is a choice - you can be more outspoken in specific scenarios or more withdraw in others. Who you are cannot be limited to one label, especially when those labels are loaded terms. Our society favors action versus contemplation - extroverts have a more positive buzz. Quiet people have a unique power.

   A culture that worships loud people

   Our society has a long tradition of trying to define what's normal - maybe because we have a hard time accepting that we're all unique. Being left-handed was vigorously oppressed throughout the centuries - lefties were forced to use their right hand to write. Discriminatory practices against left-handed persisted well into the 20th century. Similarly, people still believe that being an introvert is not normal - those who act and speak louder are favoured. 

   My classmates do ask me, " why don't I talk more,". I do feel as if something was wrong with me. I enjoyed listening to others, observing the world, and cultivating my inner- self. Through time, am becoming much more comfortable with being exposed. I don't have an issue exposing myself. Is just that people are not the same just as our fingers cannot be the same. Some people do think that am been foolish or dumped for not talking much - but am not and they can think all they like and talk all they like. I KNOW WHO I AM and I won't allow that to get changed by anyone.

   Quiet People Have A Strong Voice

   There is no such thing as a pure introvert or extrovert. Such a person would be in the lunatic asylum. Don't strive to make your presence noticed but strive to make your absence felt. According to the English Psychologist, extroverts have a lower rate of arousal. They need to work harder to get stimulated to the same level as introverts. That's why extroverts people seek bold challenges, new experiences and crave company. Conversely, quite people don't need others to feel recharged. Their voices are already strong - they don't need to speak louder. Introverts are active when they are silent. Introverts have lots to say but also value the power of being quiet. "Silence is not the absence of words, but the presence of focus". The only thing introverts hate about talking is repeating themselves. Purposeful silence is a beautiful thing. There is always a music amongst the trees, but our hearts must be still to hear it.

   Being quiet is a choice, not a permanent status. Mental noise can destroy our minds. Silence is an endangered species that we need to take care of. Noise is both a distraction and escapism. Silence is more than the absence of sound - it allows for free presence of every thing else. Silence is an essential form of non-verbal communication. It's a sign of respect and personal distance. To some people, silence means something is wrong. That's the biggest mistake extroverts make - they assume that when introverts are quitq, it's because they are doubtful, lonely, or suffering. I remember vividly the day one of my classmate told me that, "keep quiet and die in silence". I did not say anything back to him. Silence gives you the freedom to be yourself. It's a beautiful choice that can reap many benefits.

TIME

It is a mistake to think that TIME is going. It is not going. TIME is here until the world ends. It is you that is going. You don't waste TIME. TIME is infinite while you are finite. It is you that grows old and die. TIME doesn't. So better make better use of yourself before you expire. And one of the worst things to do with TIME is comparing yourself to others. A cow eats grass and gets fat but if a dog keeps on eating grass it will die. Never compare yourself with others. Run your race. What works for one person may be that which will kill you. Focus on the gifts and talents God gave you and don't be envious of the blessings He gave others.

Quotes For Today

1. All successful people not only work hard, hard, hard but they also work fast, fast, fast.

2. Good habits are hard to form but easy to live with. Bad habits are easy to form but hard to live with.

3.Sow a thought and you reap an action; sow an action and you reap a character; sow a character and you reap a Destiny.

4. Your willingness and ability to persist are what will eventually guarantee your success.

5. Thought is the original source of all wealth, all success, all material gain, all great discoveries and inventions and of all achievement.

6. Change creates opportunities.

7. To achieve something you've never achieved before, you will have to think in ways that you've never thought before.

8. Believe you can and you're halfway there.

9. Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap but by the seeds that you plant.

9. It is always the simple that produces the mervelous.

10. We sometimes need to get rid of old painfull thoughts. 

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CHOOSING YOUR CAREER

 One thing you must know when choosing your career is that "career choice depends largely on who you are and not what you know". What you love doing is the signal placed inside of you to point the way to your career.

Here are some steps to follow when choosing your careers;

1. Identify what you love doing: Always choose your career based on what you love to do and this may include cooking, drawing, writing, singing, dancing, etc.

Before you continue reading, I want you to ask yourself these questions to help you choose your career wisely;

a. What are my hobby?

b. What do I love to do?

c. What area of life do I function well in life?

d. What are my natural talents? and;

e. Who am I ?

Write down the answers to these questions on a sheet of paper and go over it over and over again.

2. Identify the school subjects in which you always perform excellently: This is also one important thing to do when choosing your career and when you identify the school subjects that you perform excellently, you can now add that knowledge to your career to make you better in your career choice. For example, if you're good in Biology you can learn more on that subject to increase your knowledge.

There is a saying that says" if you want to hide something from an African man put it in a book". It is a believe that Africans hate to read so prove that believe wrong by reading. And there is also a saying that says"he who stops reading stops living". 

3. Be creative: There is alot of the same old same old out there and it is true that copy cats can become well known. Been creative basically means having something that people will remember because it's stands out of course. This can backfire if you're too focused and complete originality( there is no such thing) but you should tease out what specific and original thing you have to offer because that will help you when you're selling your project. You can become famous through your career and these are some easy ways of doing that;

a. Setting the stage: : These days, it is alot easier to become famous. Social Media makes it easier and faster to connect with large groups of people. Getting to celebrity status, however takes time and commitment. It won't happen overnight, buy there are few ways to make it more likely to happen and these include;

i. Choose you types of celebrity: There are lots of different kinds of celebrities from writers, fiction, singers and actors or even chefs. To become a celebrity, you have to pick an area to become a celebrity in. It's also good to decide whether you're looking for that 15 minutes of fame or whether you want your fame to be a lifelong endeavour. It takes time and effort to accomplish but will last longer.

ii. Practice: There is a say that says" practice makes perfect.  So if you're wanting to be a celebrity at something, you're going to have to work at it until you're at a level that makes people want to invest in you. While, it's true that celebrities aren't always the best at what they do but they still tend to be good at it. Whether it's writing, acting, singing or cooking.

Put in at least one hour everyday at your chosen fields. This will help you get focused on your creative endeavours and keep you focused towards your goals, which is having people know your work. And also set a goal it will motivate you even if nobody does.

iii. Study celebrities in your chosen fields: See how those celebrities got famous. Chances are however you won't see all the background work that went into getting them to their celebrity status, but you will able to see where they started. For example, alot of celebrities talk about their early years and what they did to further their careers. Study how and where they got the break that allowed them to become a celebrity and how much work they had to do simply to get to that place.

THE MINDSETS OF THE RICH

 You may wonder what magical powers do the rich possess?. What are their secrets?

Their millionaire attitudes sets them apart. The poor people do not have that kind of mindset.

                  The start point

The secret to kindling the inner fire that lurks within you is the lasting happiness. You may ask yourself " where does that lasting happiness comes from"?. The lasting happiness comes from steadily working to accomplish your goals(s) and advancing confidently in thr direction of your lifesl purpose. For achieving financial success, you should bring change into your thinking pattern. In addition,you need to do the following;

1. Start thinking positively: What you love doing effortlessly for hours everyday with joy in your heart has the ability to take you to the front rank one day. What you love, you start concentrating on it and what you concentrate on, you start loving. So concentrate on what you want to be or what you want. Your subconscious mind will help you achieve it.

2. Create your own path to success: Trying to follow others will help you to some extent but your goals will not be achieved so you should try your own voice. Career choice depends largely on who you are and not what you know. To become successful in life, you must identify the area of your life where you function well and you must identify your natural talents. The ultimate struggle in life is the struggle to better yourself and not the struggle to be better than someone.

Many people fail in life because they were trained in another field instead of their field. If you are stuck up with a job which you hate, you will not be able to work toward it even if your spend ten or more hours daily you will not succeed.

3. Love yourself: If you do not love yourself, you will never be Rich and successful in whatever you get involved in because if you don't feel that you deserve the best, you will not be able to work towards it.

4. Don't feel jealous when others become successful because jealousy is a negative emotion and it will only bring negativity into your life and you will be diverted from the path of success.

4. You should not blame others for your failure: Start taking responsibility for whatever happens in your life as you would love to take all the credits for your success, learn to accept your faliures too without pointing fingers at others for the same.

Life Quotes 2

 * Don't leave your life to fate because you may loose your place in life.

* The outcome of your life is a product of you plan

* The starting point of every good plan is the writing point.

* The shortest pencil is still longer than the longest memory.

* If you have no one to inspire you, you will soon expire.

* Every human reference himself is a product of reference.

* If I have seen farther, it is by standing on the shoulders of men who have gone ahead of me.

* To think you know all the answers means you don't know all the questions.

* Decision is the initiation of motion which drives you to your destination in life.

* Indecision is the cancer if destiny.

* Decision is the mother of action.

* Live above dear and doubt in order to overcome indecision.

* The only way to overcome fear and doubt in decision making is to go ahead and make a decision. i.e do the things you fear and the fear of death I certain.

* Your fears may be fuelled by the failure of your previous decisions.

* Make more decisions in order to make a right one.

* The antidote of ignorance is knowledge.

* He who does not read is not better than he who cannot read.

* Reading is the most effective avenue for acquisition of information.

* Information is the proven bedrock upon which every transformation in life is built.

* When you read, you expand the capacity of your life 

* When you stop learning you become old whether at 20 or 80.

* Feeble minds end up as mediocre.

* Every successful leader is an ardent reader and ardent readers are potential leaders.

* Great minds are not born, they are developed.

* You dreams for transformation is rooted up in information.

* Reading enables you to rub your small mind with greater minds, so as to sharpen it and make it soind.

* The man who dares to waste one hour of his time has not discovered the value of life.

* Time management is a crucial commodity to the fulfillment of destiny.

* Your time is a reflection of the usage of the time allocated you in life.

* Time management equals life management.

* We either invest time or waste it.

* What you are today is a product of how you used your time yesterday and what you will be tomorrow will be determined by how you use your time today. 

* Time is spelt "OPPORTUNITY"; to kill time is to burry opportunity.

* Time is life and for every time you burn out, it is an equivalent of your life.

The Ultimate Struggle In Life

The ultimate struggle in life is to be trained in another field of career other than your field and aslo note that the best you can be is what God wants you to be so never destroy your life by choosing the wrong career. To be successful in life, you must identify the area of your life where you function well. It may be your edcational life, business life, music life, etc. If you must succeed and off course with speed, peacr of mind and total satisfaction, then you must keep to what you love doing. You must be generous in a unique way. This may seem counterintuitive, some people become successful by doing something for other people in an unusual way. It may be making a large donation. But you could also just raise money in some ways that is out of the ordinary.

For example, you could make it your goal to bake and sell a million brownies to raise money for a cause. If you don't have a talent of your own then why not develop one?. That's a good place to start. However, the talent you pick should be something you enjoy. You are going to spend many, many hours working on this talent so if you don't enjoy it, you're going to be miserable. When passion drives your talent or skill it will be easier to become successful.

Think about artistic career like writing, music, acting or pauntipa. Keep in mind, though you have to sell yourself in any of these fields and build a name for yourself. You can become successful by learning from yourself. Whatever talent you arebtryiar to develop, you'll do better if you learn from yourself. This can mean taking classes in your field, finding a mentor, watching tutorials online or reading books from the library. Many people fail because they undertake a business without considering whether there is room for it, others because they do not thoroughly establish themselves in the place, making no effort to get a constituency and others  because they will do not keep the goods that are in demand or do not renew the stock sufficiently quick or do not present their goods In an attractive way.

Thousands fail in business every year when an idea put into practical operation would have tided them over the trouble and opened the road to a competence. No man with common abilities who puts the half or even the quarter of these ideas into practice can possibly fail.

Never allow anyone to plan your life. You must learn from what you do best to succeed in life. He who walks with integrity walks securely but he who perverts his ways will become known. Never show anyone your plans, they might end up discouraging you in whatever you want to do and you might end up giving up. To become successful in life you must never give up because riches do not profit in the day of wrath, but faithfulness delivers from death. So never give up. If you did not plan for anything, you plan to fail.

Whenever you fail in life, it should never make you feel bad. It doesn't mean that you are a loser instead if you fail you should learn from your failures and become a better person.